Over the years I have met so many single women who are in their 30’s to early 40’s, are well traveled, entrepreneurs and kicking ass at sports wondering why they struggle with men. I myself have had unsuccessful relationships that typically end for simular reasons to one another. Whilst traveling to over 35 countries and talking to a variety of women from different cultural back grounds i’ve discovered similar complaints between them about dating.
We often feel men admire us and are even attracted to us for all of these amazing qualities we possess but with time they sometimes become jealous, competitive or deflated by us. The very things they desired in us end up being what they dislike. Although its nice being able to inspire our partner its also sad being broken up with over and over again because they did not realize what the long term effects would be of dating such a women so i’m making a list for the men. A list which will help them in making sure they are not biting off more then they can chew when pursuing a relationship with these type of women.
She is over 30 – This may excite a lot of younger men but be aware of our superior sexual knowledge. In the beginning this made you so horny you could not keep your hands off off her but also know that over time this has the ability to make you realize how much you still have to learn. Men may start to wonder how many other men other have slept with in order to learn so many awesome moves and this may not sit well with you. She knows her body a lot better then you do at this point and is not afraid to show you. You might be intimidated or even feel offended at first but go with it and see where it leads you. If you do decide to stick it out with her know she will be the best, most complete lover you will ever have.
She is well traveled – She has been to more countries then you have been to football games. This makes her interesting and cultured. You are intrigued by her stories of kayaking in Patagonia or kiteboarding in Lebanon but once you have heard the stories you may find yourself feeling jealous or bored. In the beginning its interesting but if you have not been to these places then when she meets other people who have you may be left out of the conversations. If you end up traveling together somewhere she will be the one taking charge in taxi’s and speaking different languages to book your hotels rooms whilst you may feel inferior standing in the back. We know you men like to take care of us but we are more experienced in the beginning and may have to take care of you. If you decide to stick it out then know she will take a step back and let you take care of her once she knows you can.
She is successful – She may have or does own her own business or has a high level job. Many women at this point in their lives have earned a lot of economic or financial success. You love this about her. You don’t feel like she is taking advantage of you on dates and has no problem in paying her way but she doesn’t rely on you. She doesn’t need you. When you are dating this is a huge relief but when you want to get serious with someone being needed is what makes you feel worthy. It feels nice to have a women to work for who loves and appreciates you for your hard work but these women are independent and this might make you feel useless. If you decide to stick it out then know she loves it when you take care of her and she does need you. She needs you in ways that will make you feel more of a man then you even knew possible.
She is awesome at sports – She is toned and powerful. Women find at this age they are stronger and healthier then ever. You find her sexy and alluring. She may even be better at sports then you are but after time you may realize that you miss your sport time being the guys. You liked man time when doing sports and then going home to a women who admired you for being all strong and sweaty. Instead she is out there with your or maybe even ahead of you. This might after time make you resentful for taking your man time away or just irritated at her for her lack of “house / wife-like” qualities. If you decide to stick it out then you will see that your most memorable and enjoyable times in life are those times she is right there beside you.
She is surrounded by men – When you meet her you will see many other men trying to get her attention in the same way you did. She is a cool girl who really is at ease around the guys and confident in herself. When she pays a little extra attention to you it makes your heart sing. You feel so special and better then all those other guys. You won. This feeling of being the better man will stay with you for sometime especially in the beginning when other men are still trying to pursue her but once you are a couple for awhile this will stop and she will be all yours. There will be no more games and those feeling of winning may be all you wanted in getting her. If you decide to stick it out know that she is still constantly surrounded by men trying to win her over but she chooses you everyday and you still need to fight for her heart because it is not easy for her to choose you. Her world is exciting and ever changing. She meets new people constantly and is embracing each and every experience. She choose you and you are the winner.
If you find one of these amazing women and she is looking at you be kind. She is fragile beneath her tough exterior. She may seem to easily trust you and let you get to know her but the deeper part of her heart is protected. She has a well practised manner in communicating with people and making them feel at ease. This is what she learned from being a successful business person and traveler. Don’t take her a face value. Spend time with her. Dig deeper. Stick with her and you will see a side of her she doesn’t show just anyone and then you will have the best friend, lover and partner you could ever hope for.